This summer my alma mater will celebrate the graduating class of 1985; I will have my 25th high school reunion. I attended The Buffalo Seminary, a small, private school for girls. There were approximately 30 girls in my graduating class and 120 enrolled girls that year. It was a small school indeed!
The utterance of “high school reunion” can often result in an assortment of emotions and memories, particularly with such a milestone event like the 25th anniversary class reunion. A few weeks ago the class leader assigned to organize our upcoming reunion asked me if I would help her plan and the event. I said yes. My situation may be unique; our school has always fostered an environment that encouraged the girls to nurture and value friendships long after we departed from the school’s hallowed hallways. I also liked the girls in my class and I enjoyed high school so the thought of attending my reunion does not induce nausea or anxiety as it might for some people. Besides, Facebook has allowed me to network and reconnect with alumnae, faculty and staff.
Nonetheless, I began to wonder, how has Facebook impacted the American custom of the “class reunion”?
The emergence of Facebook has made reminiscing with classmates about the “good old days” immediate and convenient. Many people have “friended” former classmates and alumni on Facebook. Status updates, wall posts and photo uploads allow people to keep in touch and stay abreast of the personal lives of former school pals. Let’s face it, some of us read about the professional and familial comings and goings of old classmates on a daily basis. Not only do you know their career paths and family statuses, in some instances you have likely read about daily culinary experiences as well as the language and physical developments of their children.
It is no longer necessary to wait until the class reunion to ask, “So, what have you been up to since graduation?” If you are on Facebook, you probably already know. Has the practicality of Facebeook diminished the need or desire for a class reunion?
The social networking site has certainly simplified the task of finding a schoolmate. Digitized photos can be fun or humiliating to look at. Today you may have have less hair, grayer hair, or a few wrinkles. Hopefully your skin has cleared up, you still have your own teeth and if you can still wear any clothing item from your senior year you deserve a medal. Nonetheless, Facebook has spawned new life to the 20th century Baby Boomer and Generation X graduating high school classes.
So, are you more or less inclined to attend your high school class reunion in spite of the Facebook virtual reality of “Class of 19??”


How To Be A Good Buffalo News Online Reader Commenter
At the online journalism panel discussion, an audience member asked Brian Connolly, Web Editor for The Buffalo News, what is the Buffalo News doing to manage racially incendiary comments posted by readers?
That was a good question. Mr. Connolly acknowledged the reader comment policy outlining guidelines posted beneath each article, the availability for readers to “flag” comments that are inappropriate and the presence of news staff responsible for swift deletion of inappropriate material.
The Buffalo News is doing its very best to monitor inappropriate responses.
Reader comment moderation is a challenge online news and bloggers are continuously faced with. Each online outlet regulates the comments of its readers but no one follows a universal set of rules. For the most part, comment moderation is determined at the discretion of the online news outlet and blogger.
With that being said, I think a few tips on “How to Be A Good Buffalo News Online Reader Commenter ” are necessary. I’m not kidding.
The framework of online newspapers, webzines and blogs promotes social exchange and discourse. I am an enthusiastic advocate for community cyber activism, blogging and new media usage.
I am not an advocate for cyber user/comment thuggery.
Before you can write you have to learn to read and comprehend.
Here are a few tips for The Buffalo News Online Reader Commenter.
1. Please read the article carefully. Look up words you don’t understand.
2. Keep the dictionary window open at all times. Also, use spell check.
3. Don’t write in slang or what you perceive to be “street talk” or ‘hood speak.
4. Please make a point; add something to the conversation not just a snarky response. Seriously, don’t just post a wise-ass comment. Save it for open mic at the comedy club.
5. Don’t blame EVERYTHING on President Obama, Mayor Brown, Black people or the East Side of Buffalo.
Dear Buffalo News, please forward this to Albert. Thanks.
11/08/2009
Categories: Cyber Media . Tags: comment, reader, The Buffalo News . Author: SoSharon . Comments: Leave a Comment